Wheel of Womanchego

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homosexuhauls

The idea that women don't have enough collective or universal experiences to organise around...music to men's ears. Meanwhile those same men are defending men across the globe against accusations of rape or abuse, because men do have class consciousness, men do recognise their common experiences and causes and men are actively incentivised to uphold the patriarchy for their own benefit and that of their fellow man. Even men who don't appear to gain as much from sexism will happily support the sexist cause or develop new ways to blame and subjugate women in response to their suffering. A man can hate another man, but they'll still turn their violence against an uninvolved woman or girl before turning on each other. How's that for class consciousness?

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https://twitter.com/glosswitch/status/1416738974983507973

(The reference in the first tweet is to the book Trans: when ideology meets reality, by Helen Joyce)

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https://twitter.com/glosswitch/status/1416677280634523651

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3rd rule of misogyny: Women speaking for themselves is exclusionary and selfish

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according to tra logic, flashing/indecent exposure shouldn’t be a crime, because people can just look away, no one is forcing them to look. 

if they disagree with that and say “that’s different, that’s in public!”, public spas are public too, by definition it’s full of members of the public. if it’s not harmful to be exposed to penis when you don’t want to because you can just turn away and not look, even with children involved, then why is flashing a crime? 

then they might say “well, people have to go out in public, but you don’t HAVE TO go to a spa, you choose to!”. actually, you don’t have to go out in public, you could be a hermit your entire life. but we understand that access to the public sphere and public resources are a right. and that may not include spas, but it includes the other things tras are demanding be open to male penis in full view or the risk of being exposed to it; changing rooms, bathrooms, prisons, women’s shelters, community showers, etc. all of which are NEEDS, women don’t have a choice if they’re there. so, when you say “just don’t be there then”, you’re saying that women do not deserve equal access to the public sphere without penis in view. you think imprisoned, homeless, and abused women can just ‘walk away?” 

the end goal is to remove any choice for women to be anywhere in public or private without there being penises, no other options, no complaints allowed. smile and accept it. 

“just don’t look” is so disingenuous. 

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Anonymous asked:

is giving men head an inherently degrading thing?

kiefbowl answered:

I’m going to give what is probably a frustrating answer to you, but I don’t think this is the right question to ask. I don’t think sex - at all - is inherently degrading. Sex is a normal human behavior. I think women should instead ask themselves questions like: do I enjoy this? is this dangerous? am I vulnerable? does my partner respect me? am I performing? is sex with my partner mutual? do I feel safe? what are the consequences to saying no to my partner? the list can go on.

one might ask instead: does my partner feel like they are degrading me during sex? is it important to them to degrade me? is my degradation sexy, a turn on to them? that is an unhealthy dynamic to be in, and it is extremely common for men to have some belief or association that his sexual behaviors towards women are indeed inherently degrading, and what’s more that is right and how it should be and even more so that it is extremely arousing to him.

twoxliberation

this is important, actually.

with my ex, giving him head was degrading. it was humiliating. the first time i gave him a blowjob, he proceeded to try to gag me with it. he’d expect me to fake gag because he couldn’t “make me gag for real.” he’d slap me while i gave him head. yank me around by my hair. i never enjoyed giving him head, because it always felt humiliating. i always had the feeling that if anyone else could have seen what was going on, they’d think he was abusing me and being cruel to me - because he was. and he rarely wanted to return the favor, but the few times that he did… it was horrible lol. it was so bad i told him i just don’t like being eaten out so he’d stop doing it (but of course he’d get me drunk and do it anyways, but that’s a story for another day).

and now, with my current boyfriend, i actually like it. it’s enjoyable for me as much as it is for him. he doesn’t expect me to do any crazy things that are straight out of porn and ridiculous. he doesn’t smack me around. he doesn’t push me to do things i don’t want to do. he can make me “gag for real,” but he never does. and with him, it’s a mutual thing. he actually wants to eat me out, and he actually wants to make it good for me. whenever we’re doing oral, it never feels like a performance or like i’m being degraded or humiliated. it’s nice.

there’s nothing inherently wrong with giving men head. but you should be asking yourself the questions op suggested, and you should consider what the man/men you’re giving head to think as well. you might not feel like you’re being degraded, but he might feel like he’s degrading you - and that’s not healthy. that’s not safe.

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I discovered my partner was a paedophile. He took me to court 37 times to get my kids

When a Facebook message revealed a horrific truth about the father of her children, it was just the start of Julia’s nightmare
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This is a genuinely heart-breaking and horrifying story that proves that the legal infrastructure of the world still favours men, regardless of their crimes. This man, a convicted paedophile, was not only allowed to roam freely and start a new life with a woman who had no idea of who he really was, but when she finally did discover the truth and tried to do the right thing by taking her children away, the legal system trapped her in an endless cycle of trauma and debt. This awful, disgusting man, used and abused the legal system to abuse and frighten this poor woman, who only wanted to keep her children safe. It is despicable, and the fact that the UK court system not only allowed this but even enabled it is evidence that the family court system is broken and should be reformed immediately. 

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The fact that anybody can believe that family courts favor women is beyond me.

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